The Lost Art of Letter Writing

Nothing can really replace a letter because a good letter is more than just communication. It is a priceless gift. A letter can be more intimate and touching than even a conversation and it can be more personal than a telephone call.

Emily Post was considered the foremost authority on proper behavior for almost any situation. Post bemoaned the fact that letter writing was diminishing.

“The art of general letter-writing in the present day is shrinking,” she declared, “until the letter threatens to become a telegram, a telephone message, a post-card.”

Often people have trouble putting words down on paper. With just a little focus and effort, you should be able to write letters that will touch the hearts of those who read them.

It’s a good idea to think about the main things you want to say before starting to write. Often beginning with some good news works well. Or you could describe what you’ve been doing that day or even describe the room in which you are sitting.

Never begin a letter by apologizing for not writing sooner.

Letters are for sharing news. In the body of the letter talk about what has been happening to you and those close to you. Discuss any shared interests. Keep the tone conversational and just try to let it flow naturally.

Formal letters should end with “Sincerely.” Familiar letters can end with “Yours truly, Regards, Affectionately, Love” etc.

Treat yourself to some quality note paper and envelopes, buy some interesting stamps, invest in a really decent pen that glides smoothly across the paper, and find a quiet hour to sit and pen a letter.  If you place you letter-writing equipment in a pretty basket along with your address book, you can curl up almost anywhere quiet and write a letter in one sitting.  A letter that your recipient will receive and enjoy opening and reading.  Almost no one expects to receive personal letters these days.  Imagine the surprise and happiness you will pass on to someone you care about!

So…who will you write to today?